Update on disconnect

>       // As trx is now referenced it can't go away

Hmm. What happens if the thd that owns this transaction is killed or the
user disconnects? THD gets freed. What happens to the referenced trx?

I created new mtr-tests (galera_disconnect_debug) to try disconnecting victim connections on several debug sync points on this code
this place included and could not reproduce any crash. Thus, transaction can't be killed while we are here or
disconnect will not free THD.

I created a new mtr-test (galera_to_error) also for the TOI error case and verified that after that you can't issue statements anymore
including KILL QUERY.

R: Jan